By Okakpu Bartholomew
The 2025 Archdiocesan Couple’s Encounter, organized by the Family and Human Life Unity of the Archdiocese of Onitsha, was held recently at the Madonna Renewal Center, Nkpor, with the theme “Marital Communication and Intimacy.”
The event brought together couples from across the Archdiocese to renew their love, deepen understanding, and strengthen unity in family life.
In her opening remarks, one of the hosts encouraged couples to remain dedicated to their homes, reminding them that “where there is a will, there is a way.” She emphasized that every marriage is unique, urging couples to focus on what works best for their families. “No two marriages are the same. If you know what is good, do it,” she said.
Speaking further on the theme, she described marriage as both a covenant and a contract—explaining that while a contract is between two people, a covenant involves God. Drawing from the Scriptures, she reflected on the creation story, noting that God’s intention in creating man and woman was to establish companionship and unity — the true meaning of life unity in marriage. She also encouraged couples to handle conflicts with understanding and forgiveness, as these are key to building lasting relationships.
The event also featured interactive and entertaining moments, including a lively dance competition among couples.
One of the coordinators, visibly impressed with the joyful participation, remarked that such events should be organized more often. She invited a sister to select the best dancing couple, after which Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Megwalu, who served as the Master of Ceremony, congratulated the winners and encouraged couples to nurture joy, laughter, and intimacy in their homes.
One of the participants, Mr. Igweleme Leonard, shared his joyful experience, saying, “I’ve never experienced such in my life. Today reminds me of 15 years ago when I got married to my wife—it feels like a marital renewal. I’m so happy to be among those who made it to this program, and I thank the organizers for teaching couples how to love and tolerate one another.”
Speaking after the event, Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Megwalu, Director of the Family and Human Life Unit, explained the inspiration behind organizing the encounter. “As the Director, I have seen a lot of challenges among couples, and we began to look for ways to help them live more peacefully and in love. This program is one of those ways to help couples foster unity and strengthen their bond.
Many couples live together physically but are emotionally far apart, so this gathering helps them reconnect,” he said.
When asked how couples can handle misunderstandings without hurting each other, Fr. Megwalu emphasized the importance of effective communication. “Communication matters a lot in marriage. It’s not all about talking; it’s also about listening.
Many couples talk, but no one listens. Learning to listen to each other is the key to peace and understanding,” he explained.
He further advised couples to be deliberate in nurturing their relationships. “Be intentional in your love, in your communication, and in everything you do as a couple,” he said.
Fr. Megwalu also revealed that the Family and Human Life Unit plans to hold similar programs at the parish level. “This year’s event was at the Archdiocesan level, but we are optimistic that it will continue annually,” he added.
The event concluded on a joyful note, as couples departed with smiles, gratitude, and a renewed sense of life unity the bond of love, communication, and faith that holds every Christian home together.
